Out in the wild!!

It was pretty cold outside and the ‘Thanksgiving break’ was the best time to get into deep slumber. But how it would have been to spend a night in the deep woods? So, we guys planned for a trip to Huntsville State park, which is situated 6 miles southwest of Huntsville off Interstate 45 on Park Road 40, Texas. We left around 4 pm in two cars and reached Huntsville before the fall of night.
We were well equipped with sleeping bags, barbecue stuff rented from TAMU. We got some firewood from HEB to set up campfire. After paying the entry fees we hurried up to the camping site near the lake filled with alligators.

The cold breeze had started and luckily there were no thunderstorms or hails to spoil our mood. We guys started preparing the tent which would accommodate five people and the rest of us have to sleep in the car.

Gopal (our chief chef :-) ) joined us after an hour and it was party time. We started setting up the barbecue and soon gopal & mani went to action. We had some burgers, chicken and some other stuff for the dinner.

We could witness the movement of raccoons in the dark who were attracted by the smell of the barbecue. We started playing music from our ipods which were connected to a small speaker and were dancing around the campfire. We enjoyed a light meal and chatted for a long time bullying each other. Since, I didn’t have a proper sleep the previous day, I was very sleepy. We all retired for the night into our tents and it was pretty cold even inside the tent. I could witness the dew drops on the blade of grass outside the tent. The thought of alligators near the lake, the heavy cold breeze outside and the movement of raccoons filled my dreams. It was totally a new experience.
I woke up very early in the morning and the sun was shining bright. The sight of the silent lake was awesome, but unfortunately I could not find any alligators. They are were small children skating and biking down the winding roads near the camp site. I woke up everybody and we had some bread and butter for the breakfast. We started packing up things, cleared the garbage from the previous night and moved towards the boating area. The boat rental have not been opened and so we have to just take photos near the boating area. The scenery was fantastic as you could see on the picture to the left. Would you believe that this picture was taken with a Sony Ericsson W580i mobile camera.

We were about to leave the place when one guy informed us that we could walk around the hiking trail to watch wildlife. So, we found a trail path and started moving. The curvy path with ups and downs, intermittent mini bridges along the way, the buzzing sound of some insects, the waters in the lake moving silently alongside …hmm I think I should write a poem, but that is not my cup of tea :-) Nonetheless, we could not find any White-tailed deer, opossum, armadillo, migratory waterfowl as mentioned on the boards along the trail.

After taking a couple of photos, we bid adieu to the heavenly paradise. It was almost noon and we were very hungry. We had a wholesome meal at Indian Wok in Houston and reached college station before twilight. It was one of the memorable trips in my life.

Towards Master’s degree in USA

Towards Master’s Degree in USA

Dedicated to all Graduate Aspirants !!

Disclaimer: I do not assume any legal liability or responsibility for the accuracy, completeness or usefulness of any information. It could be freely distributed, but kindly give reference to this link.

The purpose of this article is to provide some information for students who are interested in pursuing their higher studies in USA. This is based on my personal experience shared with that of my friends, along the journey towards my Master’s degree in USA. This article has been there for a year on my website and I thought of moving it to my blog so that I could update the document based on reader’s feedback. I would like to thank Harikrisshnan and Sreenaath in helping me prepare the initial draft and all my other friends who took time to send their valuable comments.  Before going a step further, take a look at To Masters or not?

This article is divided into the following sections:

  • Pre-Application Procedure
  • Applying to the Universities
  • Pre-Visa Formalities
  • Finance
  • Student Visa
  • Post-Visa Process
  • Life in US

PRE-APPLICATION PROCEDURE

WHAT SHOULD I HAVE BEFORE I TAKE GRE AND TOEFL?

  • Make sure you have a VALID passport in hand. This is mandatory for all foreign nationals who write these two exams.
  • Give your name in the GRE and TOEFL application, the name as it appears on your passport. Deviation from that would create some troubles later on.
  • Paying online for the exams through credit card is a simple and quick process @ ETS. It is also possible to call up the ETS registration office at Delhi (Remember that the one in Delhi registers only for the exam. The other centers are just test centers.) Also it is very useful for online payment of applications. You have to enter the same name as shown in the credit card. Also enter carefully the security code (CVS) given at the back of the card and the expiration date. Sometimes CVS numbers aren’t checked at most University application sites. Just the expiration date validates your Card.
  • Get ready with the University list in advance to which you are going to apply. This is very difficult for any test taker. But if you can at least decide on some four universities in the Score ranges of 1100 – 1500 (probably more). You would map the four univs each into a single group fitting for each 100 range. You could report your test scores to 4 universities free of cost(that comes as part of the exam fee). There is nothing to lose actually. It is always good to have some idea as you could save some money later on, when you do ‘Additional Score Reports (ASRs)’ apart from the four mentioned above (in case you apply to more than four universities). The charges for ASR are as follows: GRE – $15 / School and a service charge of $6 / call (Number can be taken from ETS Pages) you make to the ETS number. ToEFL – $17 / School and a service charge of $12 / call. For GRE reports, you can report up to 8 schools in a single call, whereas for ToEFL you can make up only 6 universities per call. If you don’t have ISD at home, then take up the Rs. 100 denominated ITC (India Telephone cards) from BSNL outlets. This is lot cheaper.
  • Enquire with the universities to which you apply whether there are any waivers for these exams. But anyway, I would recommend you to take up the exam. Even if some schools waive the exam, they might ask you to report it later. Make sure that they don’t need the scores at all before your refrain from reporting.

GRE

GRE preparation needs at least 2-3 months to be comfortable with different sections of the exam(it differs from individual to individual). Before you start preparing for the exam, just get a feel of the sections in the GRE test viz., Verbal (V), Quantitative (Q) and the Analytical Writing Ability (AWA) – These sections were present in GRE when I wrote it. I came to know that the pattern is changing. So just check it out. According to me, there is no special coaching required and you could prepare yourselves (I didn’t go for anyone).

Quantitative section

· Brush your high school maths for the quantitative section.

· Pay particular attention to ‘Data interpretation questions’.

· Write all the formulae in a separate notebook.

· Try to eliminate answer choices so that you might end up in a probability of 1/2 or 1/3 which is always better than 1/4!!!.

· Never neglect quantitative section, it is this section where you could really improve your scores if you concentrate.

Verbal section

If you have more than 3 months time before your exams, I would suggest you to first start with ‘WORD POWER MADE EASY‘ by ‘NORMAN LEWIS’ and ‘ALL ABOUT WORDS‘. These two books provides a good base for improving your vocabulary. I followed the Barron’s Word List and I took some tests at http://www.number2.com/. I subscribed to http://dictionary.reference.com/, anu garg’s ‘A WORD A DAY’ . Whenever I found time, I played word power at Reader’s digest website. Read Newspapers daily, lot of novels and literature from different areas like psychology, arts, music etc.

Words could be retained well in memory if you read it in clusters.

“Pilfer” implies stealing repeatedly in small amounts, as in “pilfered from his employer.” “Filch,” meanwhile, adds a suggestion of snatching quickly and in a sneaky manner, such as “filched another cookie from the tray.” “Purloin,” another synonym, stresses removing or carrying off something for one’s own use or purposes, as for example, “purloined secret government documents.” “Steal” may apply to any taking of something in secret and differs from the other terms by being applied to material things, such as money, as well as to things that are impossible to touch, as in “stole a look at the gifts.” – courtesy anugarg, a word a day

Take any word list from Barron’s. Sift through it and categorize it into different word groups. Try to correlate between common words and related words. In this way you could remember more words. GRE is not about retaining a word-database in you mind. A good vocabulary helps you to quickly solve the verbal section. Take as many tests as possible from ‘GRE BIG BOOK’. I bought a KAPLAN BOOK with an accompanying cd and found those tests extremely useful.

Analytical Writing

Practice essays on both ‘Issue’ and ‘Argumentative’ topics from the GRE website. A book published by Arco gives some useful tips on writing a good essay. There is nothing like right or wrong in any essay. There are two sections in AWA. One ‘Analysis of an Issue’ (AI)and other ‘Analysis of an Argument’ (AA). In AI, you are actually given a topic and you are expected to take a stance either for or against the statement provided. You cannot take a neutral stance. Justify the side you’ve taken with appropriate reasons and illustrations. Use eye-catching words and deviation-notifiers like ‘Although’, ‘but’ , ‘Nonetheless’ etc, as your essay is going to be valuated by the e-Rater first and then a human-reader. E-rater generally looks for these words. Organize the essay in such a way that it doesn’t look clumsy or feel boring. First, do some brainstorming to jot down the points that comes to your mind on the topic. Second, write the starting paragraph and the conclusion. Third, write the body of the essay that is organized in well-defined paragraphs. Just three paragraphs that carries a reason and an illustration for your point would be good. Take a thesis topic for the essay and portray that in your introductory paragraph and conclude the essay using the derivations that you have obtained so far. Use terms like “In essence”, “In summary” or “To sum up” etc in the conclusion. AA is just like AI, but you have to find faults with the author’s statement and justify your statements. In the final paragraph, you are expected to make some points on how the author could support his statement better. Always be careful with grammar and spelling in your essay

TOEFL

Toefl is an easier exam compared to GRE. Just brush up your high school grammar. Practice some listening questions from the practice CD given by ETS. You too could take online test at http://www.toefl.org/ I think that is more than enough. The essay rules for ToEFL are generally same as your GRE. Take care of your listening skills. I heard that TSE is also included in ToEFL. Seems that the candidates are given ample time to prepare their responses. So have some prior practice before you go to the Exam :)

Pay particular attention to the minimum toefl scores required by your university and don’t neglect this exam. A good test score reduces most of your worries.

APPLYING TO UNIVERSITIES

I had a broadband connection at home. It was very useful. You have to browse through lot of university web pages to decide on the final list of universities that you wish to apply.

Networking with your friends, relatives and seniors will help you a lot during this phase. Contact students in the universities that you wish to apply and enquire about your area of specialization. I would like to make one point clear when you write mails to students in Universities – Be precise in your queries and it would be good if you could jot it down in points. Some people mail me, this is my CGPA, these are my ToEFL and GRE scores, tell me my chances of admission in your university. Believe me, even a person with a score of 1400 got a reject whereas a person with 1240 score got through. Your academics alone does not matter, graduate school is about research, so how you could contribute to the research areas of the universities with your academic and industrial background, projects, publications etc is what really matters !!

First of all, start with http://www.usnews.com/ to get the university rankings. It may not truly reflect the university rankings. Some universities, for instance, are good in Computer Science compared to others. Rankings are just an indication of their rating in percentile. So all universities in the same – tier are nearly the same. US News subscription would definitely help (it would cost you around some $15/ for a year round subscription from this FALL to next JULY). Please make a note of the ‘Acceptance rate’ at the universities that you apply. TAMU had an acceptance rate of 43% (If I’m right). Make sure that they are as high as possible. You could get the admit/reject table from http://www.edulix.com/. Choose your selection based on your ‘Area of interest’ and then aid opportunities rather than the ranking alone. It is also important to take notes of the living expenses there and the annual fees (without any waiver and funding). Before narrowing down your decision contact as many of your friends studying abroad, your seniors and professors. The information given in the university website alone is not enough in making a decision.

Start filling your online application. You can come back later and make some changes till you submit the application. Please remember the user name and password. Make a separate note of commonly asked details like your ‘Date of birth’, ‘University where you studied’, ‘Dates of ToEFL, GRE exams’, ‘Test Scores’, ‘Date of Graduation’, ‘Period of study at school and college’, ‘e-Mail IDs of people who recommend you’ etc so that you could copy and paste. Some browsers have ‘auto fill’ option that you could make use of. If you have any doubts, filling the online application form don’t hesitate to shoot a mail to the university and you will get an instant reply.

Transcripts

Mark sheet photocopies must be attested properly by registrar/controller of exams etc., as specified by the applying university. Attested copies are only considered official and are accepted by the universities. All attested mark sheets must be sent in sealed and signed covers. Mostly you have to send more than one transcripts (to the department and graduate admissions office usually). Note down the university addresses properly. Almost a month delay in my admission decision because I sent only one transcript to the department and not to the graduate school.

Students who apply for their MS immediately after UG will have only ‘provisional certificate’ instead of their ‘degree certificate’. You can send the copy of it along with the transcripts. Nonetheless, make sure that you submit the copy of the ‘degree certificate’ once you join the university. This is mandatory.

Recommendation Letters

Contact your profs well in advance and request them for the recommendation letters. Some profs are flexible enough to write the reco’s as requested by you. If that is the case, write a reco keeping in mind the targeted audience. Read and revise the draft; get it approved by the prof before taking printouts on their letter head. Try to get a reco that is neutral i.e

‘I strongly recommend him for the post graduate programme at your university’ instead of the particular university. Take extra copies than the number of universities you are going to apply, in case you apply to more universities.

Also get a recommendation letter for scholarship. I applied for JN Tata and other scholarships. So get a reco for that too like-”….I strongly recommend him for the scholarship…”

Some profs might give only closed recos, if you doubt the credibility of the reco keep it as an additional one.

As one of my prof said, a reco from different people should build an all around picture about a student. One recommender should describe, for example, your project work under him, working long hours in the lab, taking seminars. The second one should describe about your research experience, published papers etc. The third one should describe about your academic excellence, extra-curricular and other special achievements.  Take a look at Writing a Reference Letter

It is preferable to use online recommendation forms if your prof obliges to do so. Please check with them whether they have ‘digital signatures’. Also ensure that they don’t delete it as junk mail :-)

Universities have their own recommendation form. Please fill all the department and course codes and other details to be filled by the applicant before giving it to the recommender.

Put the recommendation letters in envelope covers, get it sealed and signed by the Prof and note down the short name of the university in pencil on the outside so that you don’t send to the wrong university.

Statement of Purpose

It is the most important document where you communicate directly to the graduate admission committee that you are a suitable candidate for admission to the university. The starting and closing paragraphs of this document is important. Put your achievements and work experience in bold – “Best Project Award in National Level contest”, “Intern at Intel” etc….

Be specific, not sentimental and look yourself from the eye of an admission committee member. You could look for sample essays on the net or from your seniors but remember every one is unique and don’t plagiarize. Jot down the list of academic, co-curricular and extra-curricular achievements on a notepad that you have done during Undergraduate study. Graduate study is more focused towards a particular area of study, so tell them how you got interested in that area. Research the University web page about the Professor who works in that area and how you could contribute to that work. If you have had previous research experience please do mention that. You could also mention certifications that you have done and your industry experience. You could also mention, why your marks dwindled during the particular semester, may be due to bad health or things like that. But avoid explaining too much. ‘Brevity is the soul of wit’

All in one Package

Make a checklist of items to be sent to the university

  • Transcripts
  • Recommendation Letters
  • Certificate of Financial Responsibility(You could also send it later – Preferably now as you can avoid postage expenses later)
  • Resume
  • Copies of Published Papers
  • Statement of Purpose
  • Financial Form along with Affidavit of Support from Sponsor
  • Others – Materials which you think would get a seat in the Univ

I sent all my materials through DHL. It has good online tracking available for checking your shipment status. I ran out of time so I sent through DHL. Nonetheless, Indian speed post is also good and cheaper. I have sent via the India Speed Post and it reached them on time. DHL also is a good network, but that it is very costly. So make a proper choice, as most of the time it is a compromise of two things – Money and Time.

Always indicate your University ID, DOB and Name on all documents.

If you have many friends applying for the same university you can put all in one package and send it, which would be cheaper. Otherwise send all documents in a single big cover to your friend or uncle in US and ask them to disburse through local US mail. In this way you could cut down your cost.

Also, you might have to do additional score reporting. In that case, you could seek the help of your seniors or friends in US. You should provide them with necessary TOEFL, GRE score details, University details and the phone number to which the score reporting has to be done. You should authorize them to use your credit card for additional score reporting fee. It is much faster than filling the additional score reporting form and doing the payment.

Fingers Crossed

Once you have sent all your materials, relax and wait for your results. The universities will inform you in case of any missing documents. Most universities will provide you a ‘ user name’ to login, where you could check your application status. They will display the list of materials received from you. In case of any correction like misspelled name, inform them. Keep monitoring the updates and inform about any changes at the earliest to avoid confusion later.

PRE-VISA

Try to get an I – 20 from any university(mandatory for F1 visa) and book the visa date appropriately. You might get a good admit from another university after sometime and you have so much time to change the school and school contact details. (You can do this up to three working days before you take up the interview). Keeping this in mind, book the visa date allowing enough bandwidth.

You will get an I20 only if your “Certificate of Financial Responsibility” is complete. If you get Full aid no need for that and the graduate school will send you the I20. I got tuition waiver from UFL, so I managed to arrange funds for the remaining amount through a Visa consultant (as my father was about to retire, it was really difficult to show enough funds at that time). You could take a loan from the bank to show funds, however bank needs I-20 to process your loan. If you have enough savings it wouldn’t be an issue. Some universities accept you to send those documents through Fax or a scanned copy that would expedite the process.

Check whether the details in the I-20 are correct. This is very important. If not, ask your University Officials to correct it and send them at the earliest. Sign the I-20 form, your acceptance letters without fail before the VISA interview.

SEVIS I-901 Fee

You could pay sevis fee online , I would advise you to pay four days to one week before the visa interview after you get all the I – 20 from all the universities that you have applied and wish to attend. Otherwise you need to transfer the sevis fee to the new school before the Port of Entry at US. It is better to pay the sevis fee online, but make sure you take printout of the receipt immediately. Nonetheless, you have to wait for the official receipt to reach you [through Airmail ($ 0) - this will reach you some 3 weeks after you pay your fees or express mail (some charge - I think it is $30 extra) that you selected during the payment process]. Atleast you must have the printed receipt or the mailed official receipt before the VISA Interview. Having a printed copy is very much essential when you go for the interview. So make sure that you have a printer connected when you start paying the fee. Because you cant save the page for future use. If you have paid some 3-4 days in advance then your VO can see the payment details at the federal page. Most of your queries are answered on the FAQ site.

FINANCE

If you have received some sort of funds from the University, at least partly, then you have no reason to worry. Once you start the application process, start searching for Indian Scholarships for study abroad. Most scholarships, as I know are provided by Mumbai based trusts. Subscribe free to http://www.scholarshipsinindia.com which will send periodic reminders when such scholarships are announced. You can also use the Google Alerts feature to remind you whenever such scholarship information is available on the web.

I missed Rotary foundation scholarship – application period is between November -August of the previous year (year before your courses start). Contact your nearest Rotary Club for more information.

You can apply for quite a few scholarships like

J.N Tata Endowment Scholarship

J. N. Tata Endowment, Administrative Office, Mulla House, 51, M. G. Road, Fort,
Mumbai 400 001, India.
Phone: +91 (22) 5665 7681 / 5665 7198
Email: mfguard@tata.com / srasal@tata.com

You would require at least two referrals, from a Mumbai based person. You need letters of recommendation from your Professor. A Statement of Purpose other than the one sent to the university and Copies of Mark Sheets. Look for announcement in the month of January

Narotam Seksharia Scholarship

http://www.nsscholarship.net/aboutus.asp

Administrator, Narotam Sekhsaria Foundation, 46 Maker Chambers III, Nariman Point, Mumbai 400 021.

Tel: 91 22 22824589 / 22824705 E-mail : admin@nsscholarship.net

Paul Foundation Scholarship

http://www.thepaulfoundation.org/scholarships.htm

The Paul Foundation, Apeejay House, 15 Park Street, Kolkata – 700 016, West Bengal, India.

Telephone : 033 22295455/56/57/58

Fax : 033 22299596

E-mail : thepaulfoundation@apeejaygroup.com

K.C Mahindra Scholarship

I received the application form but I could not apply as deadlines passed.

Apply to as many scholarships as possible. Even you have bharat petroleum scholarships. Whether you get it or not, make sure that you leave no stone unturned. :)

I applied only to five schools and I got admit from these schools

  • Texas A & M University (Off-course, I’m now an Aggie)
  • Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute
  • University of Florida (Achievement award and tuition waiver)
  • University of Maryland Baltimore County

If you get admit with ‘Financial Aid’ just give a pat on your back. Otherwise, be on the lookout for funding yourselves. Accept the University offer and try to contact professors for any Teaching/Research Assistantships. It is not good to ask directly for funding to any Professor. Just say that you are interested (Only if you are really interested – Don’t trouble the professors too much. Don’t barge and spam their Inboxes). Most Profs won’t reply because they would like to see you in person and judge your caliber before granting assistantships. If they don’t reply, as I said don’t send redundant mails. They are really busy people.

Education Loan

If you feel that you can use your personal and family funds later or if you are not financially strong, then the best way is to approach any Nationalized bank or Private Bank for Educational Loans. Any bank is fine. But the thing is that, please make sure you and your parents (particularly) understand the clauses of the Loan completely before starting the process. Check out if there are any hidden costs.

Most banks give you loans upto 10 Lakhs without any collateral. So decide on what you have to do based on your own monetary position and the properties.

As I mentioned earlier, you could take a Bank loan only with the University I – 20 that you are going to attend. You need to put some margin amount whenever a bank releases certain amount. For example, say it is about 15%, then if a bank releases say 1000 dollars you need to put 150 dollars on your part to cover the expenses.

If you are producing some land or Agricultural farm as a collateral you need to get some of the following:

  • Encumbrance certificate (13 years Atleast) from the registrar office where the land has been registered
  • Legal opinion on the property from the Bank approved panel of lawyers
  • Parent document of the property
  • Tax paid receipt for the property
  • If it is a house or housing site you need to get a bank approved engineer’s evaluation certificate
  • If it is an agricultural farm you need to get a VAO certificate
  • You got to produce only the photocopies of the mortgaging property to get a sanction letter. Once you avail the loan you need to produce the originals. During that time you need to buy non-official stamp papers

Each and every step in the above process involves money. So start saving to finance yourself.

I’m not a financial expert. So please make sure you get the exact details correct before you sign up for the loan

VISA INTERVIEW

  • Buy a harmonium folder (the one with multiple compartments) and keep the visa documents as per the visa checklist PDF DOC
    It could be organized as follows:
  • 1st Comp – Passport, extra photos for DS forms, Appointment Confirmation letter, SEVIS Fee receipt (original or Print out)
  • 2nd Comp – All your DS forms
  • 3rd Comp – The Documents that you have received from your school like the I-20, Admission letters from the School and the Department and any Financial offer letters
  • 4th Comp – If you were working – Offer letter, Appointment Letters, Salary Slips and Form – 16 (if you have one) and of course a Employee Reference letter, if you can get one
  • 5th Comp – 10th and 12th Std marksheets
  • 6th Comp – Semester and consolidated marksheets. Show your consolidated marksheets only when asked for, otherwise Individual marksheets are always preferred
  • 7th Comp – All your Course completion, Transfer and Degree certificates
  • 8th Comp- GRE and ToEFL Score Sheets that you received after writing your exam
  • 9th Comp – Chartered Accountant statement and Civil Assessor statement
  • 10th Comp – Parents income certificate – Form 16 (SARAL Also), Form – 2D and Salary slips for last 3 months and the last one other financial supporting documents like the asset documents and stuff

  • Keep extra copies of passport photos and empty DS forms. Make sue that you entered all correct information in the DS forms when you schedule a VISA appointment. It is always better to do it online, rather than going to the VFS Office. Because you can edit it at home even three working days before your appointment. If not, then you’ll have to update everything going there everytime. And if you have any queries please visit the VFS or mail them. They almost respond within a day. The photo background should be white or off-white and please make sure that you take a snap wearing some dark colored dress.
  • Go an hour before the appointment to avoid getting stuck in a traffic jam and to comfort yourself before the interview. There would be a lengthy queue outside.
  • Security Check – Leave your mobile phones and all electronic items outside. Do not carry anything as specified in the guidelines sheet provided when booking the visa interview
  • Produce the following at the counter
  • HDFC Receipt – YELLOW Bar-coded and PINK receipt. This piece of paper is very important. If you don’t have this there is no point in you going to the Consulate.
  • DS Form 156 should be printed back to back, signed and dated
  • DS Form 157
  • DS Form 158 should be printed back to back, signed and dated
  • Attending University Admission letter and I – 20
  • The person at the counter will scan the photos on your DS form. Enter your details into the system. Removes one of the YELLOW barcode on the HDFC receipt and pastes it on the PASSPORT. Gives all the submitted documents in a Maroon Folder back to you or sometimes they are sent inside directly. You have to collect them again inside.
  • Proceed to ‘Index Finger’ scanning. Both your left and right index fingers are scanned.
  • Get ready for the Visa Interview
    • Get ready with all your documents the previous day of the interview and have a sound sleep
    • Have good breakfast and plenty of water on the day of the interview.
    • Don’t get worried or carried away by whatever happens to the people in front of you in the same queue. They might have had their own problems. So, don’t worry about others. If you have everything, it’s your day and you are going to make it. Be confident!!
    • Now it’s your turn. Take a deep breath, greet the VO with a pleasing smile. I found most of the Consular Officials friendly and easy-moving trying to calm you a bit. But don’t waste time standing in front of a Visa Officer (VO). They get annoyed by irregularity. That is why I was so specific about the Harmonium folder in the beginning.
    • Don’t produce any documents voluntarily unless asked for.
    • Be audible and if you could not hear anything just get his pardon and ask him to repeat. But I would advise you not to do more than once.
    • Avoid using sensitive technology terms related with Artificial intelligence, Nano-technology, Defense etc. They tend to put you into 221(g) and you might not end up in getting the VISA at all. So if at all you are working or taking up a sensitive area, try to tell them that you are gonna work in IISc, IIT, BITS and stuff. Please, please please don’t ever tell them that you are going to work for DRDO, Air-force.
    • Answers given to the questions must be crisp, to the point. More than the content of the answer it is the instantaneous response that matters. The next question might be a lead to your previous answer, so don’t give any extra information.

    If your visa is rejected the passport will be handed over to you at the counter by the VO. If not, go and have a party with your dear ones. Keep tracking your passport and collect the same at the rush hour service center (if you really need your passport and VISA very urgently). Otherwise it will be couriered to the address given by you, when you fixed your VISA appointment. It hardly takes a day or two extra depending on the distance.

    VISA Checklist

    Essential Documents (Without which don’t enter the embassy)

    • Interview Appointment Letter (Web Appointment Copy)
    • Passport
    • DS156 form with photo pasted
    • DS157
    • DS158
    • HDFC Challan for Rs 4600/- and Rs 281/-
    • SEVIS Fee Receipt I-901
    • School and department admission letters and I-20

    Reference Documents

    • I-20 Copies signed
    • University Admission Letters
    • Degree/Provisional/Course Completion Certificates
    • Individual and Consolidated Mark Sheets
    • 10th and 12th Mark sheets
    • GRE/TOEFL Originals
    • Merit Certificates (if any)
    • Scholarship/ Financial Assistance Letters
    • I-20’s from other universities (This might also be needed sometimes)

    Financial Documents

    • CA Certificate
    • Sponsor’s Affidavit of Support or Form I-134 for US Sponsor
    • All Bank Balance Certificate, with statements 6 months or more
    • Investments
    • Fixed Deposits
    • Shares
    • Bonds
    • LIC Surrender Value ****
    • Postal Investments
    • Provident Fund/PPF/GPF (if any) ****
    • Business Investments
    • Income Proofs:
      • Form 16
      • Salary Slip
      • Employer Certificate
  • Immovable Properties (Valuation Certificate along with original deeds + Tax paid receipts)
  • Land and Building
  • House Sites
  • Agriculture
  • **** – It is recommended not to show these as a major source of funding. Some VO’s might question what your parents might do for their financial security if they spend everything on you?

    POST VISA

    Immunization & Medical Check Up

    • Immunization requirements have to be met before you could enroll yourself in US graduate school. Some vaccines have longer intervals between doses. For example, the ‘Hepatitis – B’ Vaccine needs three doses – 1st Dose (0 days), 2nd Dose (30 – 45 days) and 3rd Dose (180 – 210 days). Check these dates. It is always better to get vaccinated if you haven’t been in the past.
    • Go for a dental and eye check up in advance. It is recommended to check your dental health before you leave, as Dentists generally charge you a lion share of your earnings. I ended up spending around 400$ for just a small treatment. If you wear power glasses, get one spare (as they are costly too) and a prescription (so you can avoid a check up if your spare glasses break up :-) )
    • Get all your medical records intact before you plan your travel.
    • Health Insurance: Some students buy health insurance from their home country. However, I would advise you to purchase your insurance after coming to US, because several ‘terms and conditions’ of your home country insurance might not match with university requirements. Please understand health insurance is very very important in US, as health care is very expensive. Here at TAMU, if you get graduate assistantship and work for 20 hrs/week, most departments offer you university insurance.

    Air Tickets

    Block the tickets well in advance, to get a cheaper fare. You need a VISA to book for Student concessions (Because BA had given a Student discount for Rs. 27000/- and a whooping 73 kg of luggage). Some airlines (Lufthansa for sure) offers an extra-baggage option @ $25 for 9 kg. And since you are an international traveler you’ll have this applicable until your final destination. Also paste your US Temporary addresses to make sure that lost/delayed baggage reaches you at least after sometime. Make your bag easily identifiable by tying up some tags with some fluorescent colors to make it comfortable to pick up on the baggage conveyer. Don’t lock your check-in baggage. If you want to lock your bags, get TSA Approved locks. Get to know about the food that is served on the flight from the travel agent. Check out My First US Trip

    Once your visa is through, you need to be more dynamic.

    • Book an Air ticket immediately. See to that you have enough time to arrive at the university in advance to look for apartments and get settled.
    • Contact the Indian Student Association or Indian Association in your university and inform them about your travel plans once your travel date is confirmed. It will help them in preparing for your initial stay and pick up . For us, the IA here at TAMU helped a lot in that respect. There were so many tips from them too about the trip.
    • Get ready with your immunization records
    • Make all your bank accounts into joint accounts, so that your parents could operate on your behalf and sign up some blank sheets and give it to your parents as they might require it sometime.
    • Close your credit accounts. You may need it once you are in US, but the exchange rates are exorbitant. So you could get one after you come to US
    • Get the contact numbers of your pals and relatives in US. This is very much useful.
    • Check with the airlines for the baggage size and limits. Buy them accordingly. Get a really good brand as you wouldn’t be investing often on this. I would suggest to get a soft baggage instead of a hard box. My hard box was heavily damaged in transit. Also I got a smaller box when compared to people who accompanied me to US.
    • Get your foreign exchange. You need to have your passport(of course with a VISA), I-20 and admission letter from the university before you go for this. Any student visitor to US is allowed to carry a total of $0.1 Million for a calendar year. You don’t need that much. Check with your university for the preferred mode of payment, mostly DD. Get some travelers cheque. Also some people get Travel cards. It is good as you need not carry huge amounts in cash. At the airport transit points, you need to pay for some carts, so better get some cash in lower denomination as $3, $10, $20 and all. Carry enough money for the apartment rent , tuition and other living expenses
    • Allow some time to meet all your friends and relatives to say good bye. Enjoy your days with your family as you are going to be away for quite sometime
    • Learn cooking, it will be really helpful once you are here. At least ask your mother to write some recipes on paper or get it on text chat after you come here or on mail :) .
    • Make a scanned copy of important documents like your passport, driving license, mark sheets and convert to PDF. Upload the same to your yahoo briefcase or at least your mail Inbox. Take photocopies of all important documents into two sets atleast. Carry one each in each check-in baggage and leave the remaining at your house. It is important to keep the originals at your cabin luggage.
    • Keep a few sets of dresses and other essentials to manage the delayed baggage problem.
    • Get a driving license and an International Driving Permit
    • Get in touch with the students going to your university. You could decide on your room mates too and share your purchases like cooking utensils, so that your baggage limits are not exceeded
    • If you are working, get an Employee relieving letter and Work experience certificate without fail
    • File your income tax returns without fail
    • Remember to call your professors who recommended you and thank them.

    LIFE IN USA

    Getting settled

    After I reached Houston IAH Airport, I collected my baggage and headed towards the limousine exit. Earlier, I contacted the ‘Indian Association’ (IA) and they informed me that they have arranged for a ‘ground shuttle‘ which would be waiting at ‘Terminal C’ limousine exit. My flight was a bit delayed and I caught the shuttle at the last minute. I know some people who missed the shuttle at the last moment. Never panic in such a situation!!! Always, keep the contact numbers of your friends, IA people with you and some change to make a phone call. Most people here are more willing to help you out and you should be safe :-) . After, I got into the shuttle I was in deep slumber and woke up only at College station. I was received by the IA and since my friend has already rented a house, I went to stay with him. IA makes every effort to host you with someone in College station. But they too have to handle 300+ students, so if something goes on a toss take it in a lighter vein. Later, I felt that I should have been hosted by someone. In that way, you get know new people that would help you in seeking an oncampus job or choosing your initial courses.

    It was great fun during those days. It took me a day or two to get out of jet lag. I brought some maggi noodles from India and I used to have them in the morning. Later, I got used to cereals and milk for the breakfast. I didn’t know cooking at that time, but some guys who stayed with us managed to cook a palatable meal. At times, it had its butterfly effects. I strongly suggest everyone coming here to learn cooking before hand. Eating outside is not always healthy and costs you more.

    Keep all your documents: passport, I-20, acceptance letter, scholarship letter (if any), DD, Traveler’s cheque, Immunization form etc., intact. To start with, you need to open your bank account. Deposit your DD’s and Traveler’s cheque. They would need your proof of residence or lease agreement. You could temporarily give your friend’s address and phone number. Later, don’t forget to change it. Obtain your deposit slip and keep it safe. You need it later, when you lease your apartment. Then, you need to go to the ‘pavilion’ which is near the Sterling Evans Library, to get your student id card. Then, you need to activate your ‘open access lab’ account so that you can use the university computers. You need to go to either Student Computing Center (SCC) or Blockers Lab help desk to activate your account.

    Looking for an apartment: Seek your seniors help and also start looking for room mates among the students who came with you. Remember, room mates are the people with whom you interact daily so choose them wisely. There are lot of apartments very near to the campus itself. Consider the pros and cons of each apartment like proximity to campus, safety, bed bugs, facilities and then choose a good apartment. I would strongly suggest you to read through the terms and conditions properly in the lease agreement before signing it. Look for faulty electrical outlets, bad airconditioner, leaky taps, bad smoke alarm, unclean carpets etc. Make sure there are no pests, bed bugs in particular. Bed bugs have always been a nightmare since I came here. If you find anything irregular, report to the apartment management and get it fixed. Later, they are very reluctant to do it. Keep your lease agreement safely and go to the bank to produce a copy of the same.

    Get hold of your friends and seniors who have a car. Go to walmart, heb to get stuff for your house. Search in ‘tamu for sale’ and other online groups to purchase things. There will be ‘church giveaways’ where you could get some good furniture. However, make sure there are no bed bugs when you bring in any old furniture into the house. Otherwise, you will live a life of hell.

    Contact your department: Email your graduate advisor for an appointment. Discuss with him, about the assistantships/scholarships. Check whether there are any separate orientation for your department apart from the International orientation. Fix an appointment with other faculty members, go and talk to them about their research or possible funding.

    Jobs and Assistantships: There is a site called Jobsforaggies, where lot of oncampus job opportunities will be posted. Prepare a good resume tuned to the particular job requirement and keep applying. Apart from this, you need to network with lot of people. This country is a land of opportunity, but you may not come to know unless you network with people. I found that most oncampus jobs are about ‘being at the right time and place’. Some jobs have the possibility of converting to ‘Graduate Assistantship’. If you get assistantship in the first semester itself, you will live a life of a king in Texas. You get your tuition waived and get handsome pay. So, I strongly suggest you to come early to campus and start you job hunt. Some employers give importance to referrals. I would say trust, sincerity and integrity matters a lot to an employer than the skills that could be gained on the job. Be ready to sell your skills and the interviews are more behavioral in nature rather than technical.

    SSN: In order to work here in US, you need to have a social security number. So you need to catch some oncampus job first, to apply for your SSN. SSN is needed for everything to buy a phone, get a car loan etc. So, when you get a job you would be given a temporary id to get your pay, before you get your SSN.

    Credit Card: You need to have a good credit history in order to get a car or education loan. Get a student credit card from any of the popular banks and start spending on your credit card even it is a small purchase. Try to pay your bills on time and in full. A good credit score matters a lot here.

    Medical Insurance: As I have already said, Health insurance is very very important in US. If you have already purchased your health insurance from outside US, you need to go to ISS and verify the policy you purchased that meets with the University requirements. If they ask you to get a different one, you could purchase within a matter of minutes online. You need to have credit card for this. I would suggest not to purchase online anything with your debit card. If you don’t have one, ask your seniors to help you. Then, you need to go to the beutal health center to submit your immunization form and proof of health insurance so that they could remove your medical block.

    Tax Information: http://www.irs.gov/app/vita/foreign_student_module.jsp

    I will update this section when I find time :D

    If you find this material useful, do find time to send me your valuable comments and suggestions to improve the same.

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    You know what I did last summer ?

    Don’t get carried away by the topic. Nothing much, just to be different !!!!At the dawn of this New Year 2007, I was hanging around the streets of Austin with my friends. They wished me a ‘Blasting New Year‘. Ya, I got really blasted :-) My first semester results came out and I went into ‘Probation’. To my parents and my close friends it came out of the blue. For many of them here, unfortunately I set a good example of “What one should not do?”. I was totally perplexed for a day or two and felt as if the whole world shunned me. I was reminded of only thing at that moment, the quote from the film ‘the Count of Monte Cristo’

    Life is a storm, my young friend. You will bask in the sunlight one moment, be shattered on the rocks the next. What makes you a man is what you do when that storm comes. You must look into that storm and shout as you did in Rome. Do your worst, for I will do mine! Then the fates will know you as we know you: as Albert Mondego, the man!”

    Sounds melodramatic isn’t it? But the opportunity cost is huge – ‘I lost many Assistantship and Internship opportunities’. Anyhow, I would say it was one of the best moments in my life which I passed with even-mindedness. It changed my perception of the whole world and it enabled me to better understand my loved ones. When I felt I was lost, the thought of ‘What next?’ and little ‘hope’ gave me enough strength to keep me back on track. Soon the dark clouds around me started disappearing slowly. Luckily got a 4.0 in the spring semester and came out of probation. It is not an achievement to be proud of; nevertheless, it gave me enough oxygen to breathe through the coming semesters and a sense of relief to my parents. :-)

     

    Student Programmer to Graduate Assistant

    I started working full time at ITIM (part of Computing & Information Services), TAMU as a ‘Student worker’ developing ‘web applications’ during summer. I happened to watch a lot of people coming and going to GSC with their resumes in hand, looking for part-time jobs. Suddenly, things of the past started simmering in my mind and I started thinking of the good old days. I would have sent resumes to almost 300+ people in the campus looking for a job. Finally, after two months search, I got a job in the Entomology dept as a ’student worker’. It was a challenging linux networking stuff and I loved the place which resembles a ‘geek’s garage’ with routers, hard disk, good old IBM computers, coiled ethernet cables all around. Moving around the work place is similar to moving in a maze. My supervisor was really a nice person. However, the pay was not enough to support my expenses. Since, Internships too turned out bleak, I started looking for some good opportunities. Finally, I got into a very good team at CIS, TAMU. The HR interview that I had at ITIM was great than the interviews I gave for internships. It was great fun. As promised, I was given a ‘Graduate Assistantship’ this Fall semester. I hope that it will continue till the end of my graduation.Swimming

    I attended ‘Adult Learn to swim‘ course held at REC, TAMU. It was an eight days course, 45 minutes for each day. They taught me ‘Basic floating’, ‘Freestyle’, ‘Butterfly stroke’, ‘Backstroke’. On day one, I went without goggles and tears were pouring down from my eyes like the Niagara falls. The Chlorinated water also left the hairs on my hand partly bleached at the end of the course. Atleast, I was cautious enough to sport a ’swim cap’ to avoid trodding down the streets like an old man. Nonetheless, I learnt a great deal of swimming; atleast comfortable with the back stroke than before. Since, I knew a bit of swimming already, I had no fear for the waters. Common folks!!!!, the depth of the ‘Learning pool’ is just 4 feet ..hahaha… and you have a life-guard always by your side. :-) On the course completion day, the coach took us to the 17 feet deep pool. It was warmer than the 4 feet pool. I felt swimming is all about proper breathing and once you learn that properly you could stay longer in the waters and could cover more laps.

    Movies

    As if I took a pledge to watch movies every weekend, I went to EDMS and watched movies almost every week. Here is a list of movies that I watched

    • The Shawshank Redemption [Hope is a good thing, may be best of things and no good thing every dies !!!!!!!!!!!]
    • The Pursuit of HappinessA true story of a rags to riches guy Chris Gardner

      The scene that I loved the most in this film is

    • The Fountain Head [Howard Roark's character really rocks - "build it as a monument of your spirit" - my favorite part in this film]
    • Fight Club [Simply mind blowing]
    • The Seven Samurai [I loved the Kikuchiyo character very much - Akira Kurosawa's masterpiece]
    • Manchurian candidate
    • Usual Suspects
    • A very good plot

    • 300
    • This has a gound sound track and visual appeal.

    • Cast Away
    • A must watch film. An excellent performance by Tom Hanks.

    • Bourne Ultimatum
    • This was the first movie which I watched in a theatre [cinemark] in one year after coming to A&M. I could have really enjoyed the movie had I seen the first two parts.

    • Oceans 13
    • American History X
    • 16 blocks
    • I think I love my wife
    • District B 13
    • A good series of STUNTS !!!

    Books
    My days apart from work were spent in reading books.
    Shrimad Bhagavatam
    This is an excellent book that speaks about the spiritual science and glory of god. I borrowed this book from my senior, so at a stretch i read this big book in 3-4 days. It expounds on the topic of ‘Bhakti Yoga’. In brief, it talks about ‘who is god’, ‘what is god’s creation’ and ‘what is the relation between you and god’. The things that were not covered in this book, but in the lectures from Chinmayananda vision explains ten things which form the basis of ‘Shrimad Bhagavatam’
    1) Sarga = creation of basic elements (that which are elemental and doesn’t have name/form)
    2) Visarga = creation of derived elements (those with names/forms such as “human”, “karma” etc)
    3) Sthanam = the place where the above things stays/exists
    4) Poshanam = nourishment
    5) Oothayaha = The impetus for activity (ootayaha) is the desire for fruitive work based on satva, rajo and thamo gunas
    6) Manuvantara = The period of life time of Manu (the period in which Dharma is established)
    7) Eeshanukatha = stories about glory of the Lord
    8) Nirodha = the dissolution
    9) Mukti = liberation
    10) Aashraya – the substratum for all the above
    Mastery: The Keys to Success and Long-Term Fulfillment 
    George Leonard walks you through 5 stages of mastery
    1. Instruction;
    2. Practice;
    3. Surrender;
    4. Intentionality; and,
    5. The Edge
    Economics in One Lesson: The Shortest and Surest Way to Understand Basic Economics [http://jim.com/econ/contents.html]
    Henry Hazlitt is a wonderful author who explains the economic principles in layman terms. The main ideology behind this books is
    “The art of economics consists in looking not merely at the immediate but at the longer effects of any act or policy; it consists in tracing the consequences of that policy not merely for one group but for all groups”
    He points out of the commonalities that could apply to any developing or developed nation.
    Microeconomics for MBAs: The Economic Way of Thinking for Managers 
    This book is really good and covers many aspects of Microeconomics without maths. I could cover only half of this book and hope to complete it someday.
    The Design of Everyday Things
    This best selling book talks about the psychology of the design of everyday things. It talks about several aspects of design: Feedback, what things are important, what things are trivial. How aesthetics could belie true design.
    The Principles of Beautiful Web Design
    This is an introductory book on Web site design. It covers basic design theory: Layout, Color, Texture, Typography, Imagery. The author describes things in a personal tone and points to lot of sample websites in context with the chapters.
    Macromedia ColdFusion MX 7 Web Application Construction Kit
    This is one of the well written books by ‘Ben forta’. I spent considerable time on this book to get me in phase with my web application development stuff.
    Beginning CSS Web development: From Novice to Professional
    This is one of the books that I completed from start to end. It is very good for people who would like to know XHTML and CSS.
    Essentials of Accounting (9th Edition) (Essentials of Accounting)
    Of all the books, I read this is the most interesting book. This book is the best place for anyone to start learning accounting.
    How to Read A Financial Report
    After reading the previous book, you could start reading this book. This helps you in understanding the ‘Balance sheet’ and ‘income statements’ of any company.
    The Essential Gandhi: An Anthology of His Writings on His Life, Work, and Ideas
    I was reading “My experiments with truth” when I was in India, with a curiosity to know why Gandhi is called ‘Mahatma’ or Great soul. But I left it half-way through as I came to US. Now, I got a good picture of this man who really served as a ‘beacon’ to the human civilization.
    He is a normal human being like ‘you’ and ‘me’, who had committed several mistakes in life but had the courage to hear his inner voice to correct himself. A person who ate meat without the knowledge of his parents, against his religious customs and later turned out to be a vegetarian. An agnostic person once, who after reading Leo Tolstoy’s – “The Kingdom of God is Within You” turned out to be a man who had great faith in GOD and sought solace in ‘Bhagavat Gita’ whenever his mind fails to find answers to the troubles in life. A person who followed the true ideal of Jesus Christ – “Love even your enemy for it is supreme love”. This book explains what he considers as “TRUTH” and “NON-VIOLENCE”. It speaks about what he thinks about social inequalities, war, love, sex, politics, spirituality
    In short, a complete picture of ‘Gandhi’. One of the best books I read in my life.
    The Prophet
    I really enjoyed reading this small book with profound intellectual thoughts.
    Spanish
    One of my neighbor was attending a summer ‘Conversational Spanish Course’ at TAMU. I thought of joining the course, but the timings didn’t suit me well. So, I thought of trying out on my own. I found ‘Coffee break spanish’ podcasts topping the charts in http://www.oculture.com/2007/02/the_top_25_educ.html, and so i started hearing them. It is a well organized spanish series. The podcasts could be downloaded for free, however you need to have a premium membership to get the transcripts of the dialogue which will help you to follow the converstation well and to understand the vocabulary. So, I was browsing through Amazon to find some audio books and found this excellent four cd series.
    Speak in a Week!: See, Hear, Say & Learn Spanish: 4 week Set (Speak in a Week)
    The book is filled with colorful illustration that you could follow along with the mp3’s on the cd. I am thinking of purchasing this soon.

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    Ten Important Accounting concepts

    Dual aspect concept

    Assets = Liabilities + Equity

    Entity concept

    Accounts are kept for an entity as distinguished from the persons associated with the entity

    Asset-measurement concept

    Accounting focuses on the fair value of monetary assets; Non-monetary assets are reported at an amount based on cost

    Going concern concept

    The accounting concept that assumes that the entity will continue to operate indefinitely and that it is not about to be sold is the going concern concept

    Money-measurement concept

    Accounting reports facts that could be expressed only in monetary amounts

    Conservatism concept

    Revenues are recognized when they are reasonably certain

    Expenses are recogized when they are reasonably possible

    Materiality concept

    Disregard immaterial matters. Disclose important matters

    Realization concept

    Revenues are recognized when goods or services are delivered to the customer

    Matching concept

    Expenses of a period are costs associated with the revenues or activities of the period

    from: Essentials of Accounting

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    Managing career & expectations – by R Gopalkrishnan at IIM

    These are the personal view of Mr. R. Gopalakrishnan, Director – Tata Sons and an ex-HLL manager.

    A Story on how to manage your career & your expectations by R.Gopalakrishnan

    There is a Thai saying that experience is a comb which Nature gives to man
    after he is bald.As I grow bald, I would like to share my comb with your people, about
    their career ahead.

    Seek out grassroots level experience

    I studied Physics and Engineering at University.
    A few months before graduation, I appeared for an HLL interview for Computer
    Traineeship.
    When asked whether I would consider Marketing instead of Computers, I responded negatively : an engineer to visit grocery shops to sell Dalda or Lifebuoy? Gosh, no way.

    After I joined the Company and a couple of comfortable weeks in the swanky Head Office, I was given a train ticket to go to Nasik . Would I please meet Mr. Kelkar to whom I would be attached for the next two months? He would teach me to work as a salesman in his territory, which included staying in Kopargaon and Pimpalgaon among other small towns. I
    was most upset. In a town called Ozhar, I was moving around from shop to shop
    with a bullock cart full of products and a salesman’s folder in my hand.

    Imagine my embarrassment when an IIT friend appeared in front of me in Ozhar, believe it or not! and exclaimed, “Gopal, I thought you joined as a Management Trainee in Computers”. I could have died a thousand deaths.
    After this leveling experience, I was less embarrassed to work as a Dispatch
    Clerk in the Company Depot and an Invoice Clerk in the Accounts Department.

    Several years later, I realized the value of such grassroots level experience. It is fantastic.
    I would advise young people to seek out nail-dirtying, collar-soiling,shoe-wearing tasks. That is how you learn about organizations, about the true nature of work, and the dignity of the many, many tasks that go into building great enterprises.

    Deserve before you desire

    At one stage, I was appointed as the Brand Manager for Lifebuoy and Pears soap, the company’s most popular-priced and most premium soaps.
    And what was a Brand Manager?

    “A mini-businessman, responsible for the production, sales and profits of the brand, accountable for its long-term growth,etc.,etc. I had read those statements, I believed them and here I was, at 27,”in charge of everything”. But very soon, I found I could not move a pin without checking with my seniors. One evening, after turning the Facit machine handle through various calculations, I sat in front of the Marketing Director. I expressed my frustration and gently asked whether I could not be given total charge. He smiled benignly and said, “The perception and reality are both right. You will get total charge when
    you know more about the brand than anyone else in this company about its formulation, the raw materials, the production costs, the consumer’s perception, the distribution and so on.

    How long do you think that it will take?”
    “Maybe, ten years”, I replied, “and I don’t expect to be the Lifebuoy and Pears Brand Manager for so long”!

    And then suddenly, the lesson was clear.
    I was desiring total control, long before I deserved it.
    This happens to us all the time – in terms of responsibilities, in terms of postings and promotions, it happens all the time that there is a gap between our perception of what we deserve and the reality of what we get. It helps to deserve before we desire.

    Play to win but win with fairness

    Life is competitive and of course, you play to win.
    But think about the balance. Will you do anything, to win? Perhaps not. Think deeply about how and where you draw the line. Each person draws it differently, and in doing so, it helps to think about values.

    Winning without values provides dubious fulfillment. The leaders who have contributed the most are the ones with a set of universal values

    Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King for example. Napoleon inspired a ragged,
    mutinous and half-starved army to fight and seize power. This brought him name and fame for twenty years. But all the while, he was driven forward by a selfish and evil ambition, and not in pursuit of a great ideal. He finally fell because of his selfish ambition.

    I am fond of referring to the Pierre de Cupertino Fair Play Trophy. It was instituted in 1964 by the founder of the modern Olympic games and here are two examples of winners. A
    Hungarian tennis player who pleaded with the umpire to give his opponent some more time to recover from a cramp. A British kayak team who were trailing the Danish kayaks team. They then stopped to help the Danish team whose boat was stuck. The Danes went on to beat the British by one second in a three hour event! What wonderful examples of sportsmanship! Play to Win, but with Fairness.

    Enjoy whatever you do

    Sir Thomas Lipton is credited with the statement, “There is no greater fun than hard work”.
    You usually excel in fields, which you truly enjoy.
    Ask any person what it is that interferes with his enjoyment of existence.
    He will say, “The struggle for life”. What he probably means is the struggle for success. Unless a person has learnt what to do with success after getting it, the very achievement of it must lead him to unhappiness.

    Aristotle wrote, “Humans seek happiness as an end in itself, not as a means to something else”. But if you think about it, we should not work for happiness. We should work as happy people. In organizational life, people get busy doing something to be happy. The more you try to be happy, the unhappier you can get. Your work and career is all about your reaching
    your full potential. Working at one’s full potential, whether it is the office boy or the Chairman, leads to enjoyment and fulfillment.

    A last point about enjoyment. Keep a sense of humor about yourself. Too many
    people are in danger of taking themselves far too seriously. As General Joe Stilwell is reported to have said, “Keep smiling. The higher the monkey climbs, the more you can see of his backside”.

    Be Passionate about your health

    Of course, as you get older, you would have a slight paunch, graying of hair or loss of it and so on. But it is in the first 5 – 7 years after the working career begins that the greatest neglect of youthful health occurs. Sportsmen stop playing sports, non drinkers drink alcohol,
    light smokers smoke more, active people sit on chairs, starving inmates of hostels
    eat rich food in good hotels and so on. These are the years to watch.

    Do not, I repeat do not, convince yourself that you are too busy, or that you do not have access to facilities, or worst of all, that you do this to relieve the stresses of a professional career.
    A professional career is indeed very stressful. There is only one person who can help you to cope with the tension, avoid the doctor’s scalpel, and to feel good each morning – and that is yourself. God has given us as good a health as He has, a bit like a credit balance in the bank. Grow it, maintain it, but do not allow its value destruction. The penalty is
    very high in later years.

    Direction is more important than distance

    Every golfer tries to drive the ball to a very long distance. In the process, all sorts of mistakes occur because the game involves the masterly co-ordination of several movements simultaneously. The golf coach always advises that direction is more important than distance. So it is with life.
    Despite one’s best attempts, there will be ups and downs. It is relationships and friendships that enable a person to navigate the choppy waters that the ship of life will encounter.
    When I was young, there was a memorable film by Frank Capra, starring James Stewart and Dona Reed, and named IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE. It is about a man who is about to commit suicide because he thinks he is a failure.

    An angel is sent to rescue him. The bottom line of the film is that

    “No Man is a Failure Who Has Friends”.

    Conclusion
    My generation will never be twenty again, but when you are older, you can and should be different from my generation. Ours is a great and wonderful country, and realizing her true potential in the global arena depends ever so much on the quality and persistence of our young people.
    Good luck in your journey, my young friends, and God be with you and our beloved Nation.

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